I just had learned this from a guru named Chet recently. He explained that when he started out in pickup he sucked horribly. He also said the quicker you fail and go through the failing process in pickup the quicker you will get good. Interesting I thought since obviously nobody likes to fail anything. Just a quick insight I had in this the guy is brilliant.
So by all means none of us should be afraid to fail time and again in this process. There technically is no such thing as failure since you learn from your experiences as far as what works and what doesn’t.