One way is to render the word “boyfriend” useless… You can do this by inviting the girl into your life and ask her to bring her boyfriend. You want to mention her boyfriend between 7 to 14 times during the sarge. Make sure you show her that her boyfriend is not a threat and you would love to get to know the both of them.
Another way is to completely ignore that she said it and continue to build value.
Another way is to do a comparison test.. Here is the one I developed its called: HIGH/LOW YES MINDFRAME Speer:
You have a boyfriend thats cool… Let me ask you something… What type of car do you drive?
Target: Honda Accord
Speer: If I told you that if you give me your Accord and I would give you a Brand New Ferrari would you do it?
Speer: Ok, Do you live in an apartment or house? Target: I live in an apartment Speer: Cool, renting or own?
Speer: If I told you I would give a brand new mansion fully furnished around the same area but you would have to leave the place your renting would you do it?
Target: Yes, ofcurse
Speer: Awesome, one more question…What do you do for work?
Target: I am a secretary
Speer: Oh that’s pretty cool…What if I gave you 10 million dollars but I told you that you could never work as a secretary again…would you take my offer?
Target: Yes in a heat beat
Speer: Your a smart girl…here (hand her the phone) put in your number. You seem like an intelligent girl. I’d love to continue talking to you.
Here is what this routine does. It compares High Status to Low Status in secession. It also gets the target in a “yes” mind frame. And last of all you pin her with your a smart girl, meaning if she does not give you her number that would be “dumb”.