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I’m so glad I’m back in LA, although Israel was amazing. Sorry I dropped End Game, but family first. I did, however, give you some kickass tactics and theories I hope were useful. If they were, leave me a comment. If you have any questions about anything I’m talking about, don’t be afraid to post a comment with a question. I try to help everyone to the best of my ability. That’s 95 percent of why I became a PUA/dating coach. It warms my heart to see people succeed, change their lives and see them blossom. I also want to extend a very special thanks to Ink for keeping the blog alive while I was gone.

I had so much sex with so many different girls at Project Miami that it became meaningless. But at the same time, if none of my girlfriends could come over and I didn’t feel like going out, I would end up feeling like shit. It took awhile for me to realize that that was a terrible mentality to fall into. It started changing a lot of my mindsets about game, pickup and the whole approach to it. Style said the way to win the game is to leave the game, and that started making more and more sense to me. Also, I realized you should feel good about yourself when you’re by yourself. I was successful at what I’m doing, but one night would wreck my past achievements in my mind. If an actor wins an Academy Award, should he feel like shit the next year he doesn’t win? No. When you fall into that mentality, you’re giving others the ability to validate yourself. This is also when I started to realize that state doesn’t matter.

And tonight I wasn’t in a particularly good state. It was 1 a.m. and I was having one of those nights by myself when suddenly I got a text. It was from this blonde girl named Mary, from Gainesville, the balls of Florida. If you look at Florida on a map, it looks like a penis, with the northwest portion serving as balls and the Keys looking like jizz. I had been working on Mary for awhile. I kept inviting her to Project Miami, but she never came. The text said she was in town with one of her hot friends, and she asked if they could spend the night because another one of her friends bailed on her. I said sure, and told them they would have to stay in my room because we didn’t have any extra rooms.

Then, I went to Arcane and told him that I was having two girls over. I told him to make sure to AI me (give me an accomplishment introduction) and then make himself scarce. I needed to go over that with him because he was new to the community and wasn’t well calibrated. Especially with accomplishment introductions, most people try to amp up their friends in such a false way that it’s not real, and comes off as fake. “Yeah my friend is so fucking awesome, he rocks,” is an example of an ineffective AI. When you’re giving an AI or trying to make your friend look better, be sincere. Is he trustworthy? Is he your big brother? Is he accomplished in some way? Whatever you say, be real about it. If it sounds fake, it’s incongruent and it serves no purpose. And build comfort before giving an AI. If she doesn’t trust what you say, no AI will be effective.

I got a call from Mary. She and her friend were having as hard of a time finding Project Miami as I did the first time I drove there. It’s like the black hole of Miami where GPS navigation doesn’t work and you’re left driving through the ghetto.

Project Hollywood is such a more convenient location by comparison. Right off Sunset Plaza, it’s very easy to find and give directions to. You need to carefully choose your location, depending on the type of lifestyle you want to live.

They finally get to the house and I see a fuckload of bags. That worried me a little. How long were they planning to stay? But at the same time, it’s two fucking hot blondes. I’ve always had a weakness for blondes. Even today, my Thai girlfriend is now blonde  (she was not before, just to let you know). Just something I’m attracted to. Some people like redheads, brunettes, pink hair, but I like blondes. So I helped them with their luggage, which was easy since I lived on the bottom floor. There was this hangar thing that opened and led almost straight into my room, so I didn’t have to bring people through the house all the time. I brought them in, put their bags at the door and told them to come with me upstairs to go upstairs and play some billiards. You should bring girls into the room you’re going to have sex with them and then leave, so they feel safe when you bring them back. I also like to lubricate girls with some alcohol first. Not get them drunk, but just so they get a little buzz. And I always made sure my room was spotless and organized.

I also had music playlists for every occasion. A sex list, a chill list to make people feel comfortable, rock, R&B, and basically every genre, including multiple genre lists to match the mood, or create a certain mood. Music is euphoric and can set a mood fairly quickly. I always ask what music they like during the qualification to set my logistics when I’m bringing them to the house. Tonight, I had the comfortable music on. Mary and her friend sat on my bed, since there were no chairs. The setup of your room can harm you or hurt you. If you have too many chairs, or chairs that are too comfortable, girls will head for them because they’re safe. Ideally there are no chairs in your room. Make sure your bed is clean so girls will dive right in. A lot of PUAs don’t think about this stuff, they just go out and game. Do you want to make your life easier? Then set up your place logistically. Have good lighting that’s adjustable, dimmable. Have good art on the walls. Have a good comfortable vibe. How you decorate your place will automatically give a feeling to anyone who walks in. With girls, the better they feel, the easier it will be. For instance, they got to see my projector playing winamp effects, which set a mood, and all my lights were dimmable. Most of the time I would turn out the lights and have winamp playing. The entire wall was my projector, and it was a big fucking wall.

I also had them take off their shoes because of my white shag carpet. When you get girls to take their shoes off, it’s one extra step they would have to take before leaving, and they’re a little more comfortable in your domain, or “pleasure bubble,” as Mystery likes to call it. And it’s one less step you have to take to undress them. Taking off their pants becomes much easier as well.