It is interesting how my life is turning out. Over the last year things are turning around fast. I never know what is going to happen from day to day. The one constant is the ability to go out any night of the week most the time, well that and training.
It is a different dynamic when you are training someone. Some let it go to their head and others repress it. I personally have not been a lime light person. Yet I realize now that this is something I have to do. I have been called out for my Field reports being brag reports. Silly to me since I give mostly content in them. It happens, no matter where you go there is some one that is going to hate what you do.
After this report I am going to start doing field reports through video for myself. I will post them so you can get the content and see my journey from this point on again.
Field Report last written.
Hey guys went out to the W hotel last night for jazz night. It was a great night with a lot of sets everywhere. Over the last couple of months I have been working on the mind set of always going for the rejection in the sets that I go into in a smart way.. Nothing is more apparent than seeing some one like Tyler Durden in field.
While I was there I saw Tyler and Mehow. I have meet them quite a few times before and so I started talking to them. The amazing thing is that their eyes are always going for who they can approach or there students can approach. In the middle of speaking hear Tyler all of a sudden say “Turn around approach NOW NOW NOW” I turn around and see a group of two and start just speaking. I was taken back by there beauty and didn’t give the greatest impression. It happens even to instructors like me. The real money is that Tyler came in and went super sexual right away. He started saying “ Don’t walk away he just wants to put the tip in that’s all. I swear he will pull out right away. “ It was so out there that it made me laugh hard.
This is a I don’t care attitude that is so great to have in field. The best thing is when you see it and then realize that nothing bad happened. No bouncer, no boy friend, nothing but them walking away. This allows you to feel like it is more possible for you.
Later that night the student I was with had 3 girls that he was thinking about pulling back to project Hollywood but he wasn’t really attracted to them. It happens sometimes. He wanted to do it just for practice. I walk over to see if I can help or just push the set as far as it will go. Through the short time we end up boosting there emotions and getting them laughing and they just didn’t seem to want to come back to the house. They were cute and skinny. I was willing to take one for the team on this one for sure. After a few minutes I saw that they were not going to be coming back that night no matter what.
I had a quick flash of tyler pushing the set hard from before, I decied to follow his lead and speers mind set kicked in to push the set for a rejection. That’s the only way you can really learn. She said she was an actress that just did a some vampire commercial. I took this straight into Speer’s kiss close. Now I am kissing and biting her neck. She pulled back fast at the end. She said she didn’t kiss people she just meet. Understandable, I took it as the idea that she needed more comfort. Live and learn.
When you realize the set is not going anywhere that night take it to the next level and see what you can do. You may be surprised.
Tell next time,